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“I asked her out for a walk, but she came with her boyfriend”: we talk about terrible and strange dates
— In my first year at the institute, I invited a girl on a one-day excursion to the rocks. We barely made it back on the last train, which passed one station and that was it. Then only in the morning. The driver allowed us to spend the night in the first car and periodically turned on the heating. There were no phones at that time, and my parents called all the hospitals and morgues,” Evgeny recalls.
— At the end of the date, the guy started threatening me when I told him that I would go home alone and that he did not have to accompany me and that there would be no more meetings. “In any case, my mother works in a housing agency.” At 15, I was scared,” Olesya recalls.
— The guy had a date in the metro. I came, and he was not there. I asked where he was. He answered that he would be there soon. This “soon” lasted for an hour. It turned out that he had sex with a neighbor much older than the woman and happily told me about it, inviting me to visit. Since then, he has been on my black list,” says Natalia.
- (This guy is my age). In my opinion, this is a red flag. He also looked much worse than in the photos. I have never left so quickly," Lelya wrote.
— We talked on the phone for hours for a little over a month. Surprisingly, he always had something to say. We worked a lot, but we never met. I couldn’t stand it and was so shocked that I came to Chelyabinsk to see him. If something happens, I think I’ll at least be able to see the city. I didn’t expect it, but we met at sunset. We had a good talk, and everything seemed fine, but I felt that something was wrong. I left (the train left at 3 a.m.), and a day later his pregnant wife called,” Anna wrote.
— I went on a date with a guy from a dating site, and he spent the entire meeting telling me that he and his wife were looking for a second girlfriend for him while she was pregnant. They said that the previous woman calmed her down. He did some work and left them. He also bragged that if his wife wanted to cheat on him, they would find her as a man on the site together and talk to him alone so that his wife wouldn’t be offended. He also said that they tried to become swingers, but it didn’t work out because he was jealous of his wife. While he was saying all this, my jaw mentally picked up off the floor.
There was another incident, we were on a date with a young man and had already finished it, but someone called him and from the voice it was clear that it was a woman. He said that I needed to pick up my sister from the station, and we quickly said goodbye. Some time later I met him again and shamed him for lying and admitting that at the time he had a girlfriend. As a result, we became friends and have been living together for about 10 years now,” says Lyudmila.
— There was a case several years ago. At the end of the first meeting, the man said that he was going to spend the night in the office, since a taxi would cost 450 rubles, and there was none (there was a comfortable sofa). I was ready to overpay. Public transport was no longer available. I took a taxi and left, and he stayed and waited for the price to drop. Then I immediately started writing to find out if I liked him,” says Ekaterina.